I broke up with someone, and it happened a few months ago. However, after breaking up, that person kept trying to contact me, and I always responded to what he did. And now that person has never contacted me, so I can only stay silent and let it happen, even though I am very hurt, but I can't do anything. because we have finished a long time ago
Last updated on:2026-09-11T03:46:51+05:30
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why i always thinkin bout him n stalking his socials
we broke up months ago but anytime we met i couldn't resist the urge to kiss him...and he would always initiate it...so i finally asked him why will he ignore me for days then when we meet it's like he missed me and is all over me?
then asked if me and him ever had a chance of getting back together and he said no
he knows i'm still into him and he knows so he's using it
i really want to finally move on and stop feeling stupid
i need this help i'm tired of letting myself been used
i always fall back because i know i might never find that like that of love again thou it wasn't the best
yes, sometimes things like that make us feel stupid, even when we know that we are being used
@ndyca yeah you're right.. right now i'm trying to avoid contact and feel better alone
nfortunately, in my case I called him an idi*t because he didn’t understand what all of this meant to me he is my first love.
He had been flirting with another girl and sending her flirty messages for months, while calling me paranoid whenever I said I felt like something was going on between them.
Yesterday I found out that I was actually right. He really was messaging her and seeking her attention, while telling me he was too busy.
He used to say much worse things to me when he was angry. The worst part is that I know he’ll never come looking for me because now he has the perfect excuse to walk away"I called him an idiot for the first time."
My heart was broken because I was watching him flirt with another girl and send her se*al messages. Now it hurts because I feel like I’ve lost the right to be angry.
I think the last bit of hope I had that he might come back and that, if he did, I would have the strength not to take him back is gone now.
girl, that guy is such a jerk. you deserve better.
i know it feels like you can’t do anything right now, but you don’t have to chase someone just because their silence hurts. i had to let myself miss my ex without turning that feeling into a reason to contact him, and that was really hard at first.
i'm currently trying not to communicate with him, it's been going on for almost a month
we broke up few days ago i didn't want it i still love him and i think he does too but he said he can't do it cuz of the distance. we broke up 2 days before this one and i just don't know if i should keep holding on to him coming back or give up and move on, cuz he broke up with me 2 times and he was the one to want to get back with me those 2 times
and the thing that Hurts is he said he will always be there for me but now he is gone? what did i do
you think you’re hurting because you still want him back, or because you got used to him always being there and now the silence feels final?
actually, it's because there are too many things left unfinished. unresolved disappointments, unanswered questions, a feeling of injustice because the story didn't end the way I expected, and a part of me that still hopes that everything that happens has a reason.
same waiting for the messages to stop and then feeling even worse when they finally did. i thought i wanted the silence, but when it actually came, it hurt like i’d been left all over again.
belive me, do not answer them, find your one peace