my ex boyfriend has a really weird friendship mentality. he was ghosting them for weeks even though they are really anxious about his well-being. and he didnt even save any of his friends number. in his directory there is just me his mom his father and his brother. he even made an Instagram account just for me because he said "i dont wanna see any other notifications apart from yours".But deep down he also loves his friends and meets with them up every weekend also talk about them in a really grateful way. So when we broke up he unfollow all my socials and created a new acc. we broke up five days ago and i couldnt tell if he moved on and find someone new or its just his close friends (we ended our relationship in good terms)
Last updated on:2026-09-06T10:49:16+05:30
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has he actually done anything that makes you think there's someone new, or is the fear mostly coming from him unfollowing you and making a new account?
no actually but he had so many aspirant back in our relationship and he is a charming person
ive days is SO fresh, i remember staring at my ex's follows and trying to figure out if every new person meant someone new. my brain turned every tiny online thing into evidence, and i barely slept.
yeah its same here too i cant even imagine this two followers as a family member or a friend anymore i am going to get crazy
this makes me wonder, how many accounts does he actually have?
yeah sometimes i think like that too but no i trust him he wouldnt do such thing
Honestly, I can understand why you’re wondering. After everything you two shared, seeing him create a new account must feel really confusing ❤️🩹
yeah it felt confusing what are you thinking about it did he find someone new?
@CozySoul437 Ne olursa olsun, fazla düşünme. Sen bir kişinin seçiminden çok daha değerlisin. Başını dik tut, bestie ❤️🩹
@riju thank you so muchhhh
he avoidant dismissed. them like ghost and break up idgf . he like my ex avoidant dismissed ex. how u know it him new account? from her ig pic seem he wan move forward new life be alone. maybe 2 is someone new or her friends idk . no one fast move on if he change her own pic mean he find other what I see he wan start new life be alone
no i mean he always have black cats as a profile picture thats not the problem he wasnt avoidant he has just communication issues and i find his account because it pops up on my recommended people
@CozySoul437 u say he ghost friends week not even save her friends number name ? don't like ig made only for u ?? all people like social media ig act idgf move on made new account only 2 private after break up that avoidant sign.better stop stalker him so u stop detective pls take care yourself log out remove all social media less phone take rest go talk Friends fam go out write journal gym read book do thing u like hope u heal soon send hug 🫂💜
@BraveJourney904 oh thank you so much i am seeing your message righ now. thanks for your help i send you hugs too 💗🫶🏻