me and my ex have been on and off for almost 2 years now and he usually just texts me and asks to get back together and i ofcourse say yes, but i dont wanna look easy plus when i text him he just ignores me or answers me when he feels like it and he doesnt hate me, but i dont wanna text him anymore and just look stupid. we broke up this time because he wanted another girl and this isnt the first time. the first ever time we broke up was because he "accidentally" cheated on me but that was so long ago and the 3rd time we broke up was because he seen a girl that was prettier than me, i forgave him ofcourse and we got back together less than an hour later because i was stupid and begged for him back, but i dont wanna be easy acess anymore.
Last updated on:2026-05-28T17:53:12+05:30
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my ex used to come back every single time he got lonely too, and i kept mistaking access for love. the “prettier girl” comments would’ve shattered me too honestly
i get why you don’t wanna look easy anymore. what finally helped me was realizing i kept fighting for someone who never feared losing me because he knew i’d always stay. that realization HURT but it woke me up fast.
don’t go back! he needs to figure himself out and stop playing around with your feelings. trust me i have been there. find peace away from him.
when he comes back again, because honestly he probably will, do you think you actually miss HIM or just miss the version of him that made you feel chosen sometimes?