Why did he block me? the pain of being shut out

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I found myself snooping through his social media and found that he blocked me. He sought me out after I made a new Instagram and blocked me. I am so hurt that he has completely closed the door and I know he is such the victim. I have been going back and forth about reporting him. Tonight is one of the nights I just want to but it's 11 at night :(

Last updated on:2026-05-29T21:01:01+05:30

Comments (5)

BlazeFox967
BlazeFox967 8 hrs ago

keep your head up, keep moving forward, and know you're not alone friend ❤️

HHoGG1
HHoGG1 9 hrs ago

when you say he plays the victim, do you mean he’s twisting the story to other people or is it more the way he treated you after the breakup?

Breakfree
Breakfree 8 hrs ago

he twisted the story to others and to myself

heartthreft
heartthreft 14 hrs ago

i wouldn’t make any huge decisions tonight while you’re hurting this hard. what helped me was waiting until the next day and asking myself if i wanted to report him because i truly felt unsafe or because i wanted them to finally feel the hurt they caused me.

connection
connection 17 hrs ago

ugh, him going out of his way to find your new account just to block you again feels so cruel and weirdly controlling. i’ve had nights where i spiraled over tiny online things too, refreshing pages at 1am and feeling physically sick over a BLOCK