i've been with my girlfriend for quite a while and honestly i truly believed she was my forever person. i was fully invested in us talking about marriage future plans building a life together all of it. she made me believe she wanted the same things too.
a few days ago i discovered that she had been talking to three different guys. not just casual conversations either. she had been making plans to meet up with two of them. i saw the messages myself.
the moment i found out it felt like the ground disappeared beneath me. my stomach dropped i couldn't think straight and i've felt sick ever since. the betrayal hit harder than i can even describe.
what hurts most is that i genuinely saw a future with her. now it feels like everything i imagined for us has been erased overnight. i keep replaying every memory every conversation wondering what was real and what wasn't.
right now i feel completely lost. part of me still wants to fight for what we had because i loved her so deeply. another part of me knows that this kind of betrayal may be something a relationship can't come back from.
for anyone who's been through something similar how did you get through those first days? did you confront them? how did you handle the pain when it felt impossible to think about anything else?
Last updated on:2026-06-04T23:38:11+05:30
Comments (6)
Sounds hard. Life is hard, choose yours. Both scenarios are hard, staying or moving on, but moving on have more options for you rather than staying with an unfaithful partner, you might forgive her, but with time and when life hits you again, you won't be able to forgive yourself for the disrespect you chose.
She is not ready to meet you at your level. As callous as it sounds you have been given a gift.
the first few days are tough but you'll get through it friend
You are stronger than you know. Don’t stop pushing.
Pain is the Shortcut to Growth Life hits hardest when you least expect it. For me, heartbreak and personal setbacks felt like the end of the world, but they were actually the universe whispering lessons in disguise.
Sorry you’re experiencing this and I pray this doesn’t change your outlook on love and relationships in the future. This is someone who clearly doesn’t respect themselves so HER LOST!