we were together for almost 4 years, moved in together and got married last year. that was the worst mistake- our relationship completely flipped, we started arguing constantly, having bad fights, but we'd always make up and loved each other more than anything and anyone. a few months ago things kept getting worse and harder, he said he wanted to move out (because our relationship worked better when we lived apart, and he thought living together was the root of our problems) we talked a lot about it but i was very against the idea. one day i came home and he removed all his belongings and disappeared.. blocking me completely, he deleted all his socials, i constantly try messaging him but never get a response, and neither will anything send. he recently called me over a week ago begging me to meet him, when i didn't, he blocked me again. i don't understand - how could someone do something like that? how do i move on from this? and how does he not feel how heartbroken i am? i dont know what to do anymore. it feels like when i move forward even an inch, he might message me, but if i stay miserable he'll never reach out. do you think he'll contact me again? i can't stop crying and dreaming everynight of searching for him.
Last updated on:2026-06-07T00:44:43+05:30
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when he called asking to meet, do you know what he wanted to talk about, or were you too hurt and shocked by everything that had happened to find out?
i’m not sure, but it’s happened before where he’ll beg for me back or blame and the cycle repeats again almost an hour later. i wanted him to at least acknowledge his disappearance before i come but him blocking me immediately after was an answer 😔
i don't think i'd be able to stop crying either.
my ex didn't disappear the way yours did, but i know what it's like when someone who was your whole daily life suddenly becomes unreachable. the confusion can be just as painful as the loss because you're left with so many questions and no answers
for more context, i’ve never cheated on him or done something unforgivable. i centered my world around him, he was my life. i don’t know how to live without him anymore, he was the only family i have.