I clearly broke no contact and will break it again. My mental health is not focused on no contact its focused on trying to see who I will become by just trying to do what I like and just trying to live normally again. I got the answers I wanted and I know my ex doesnt like me anymore. For now, I hope I can become even better than I am rn because I know what I'm worth and I deserve love too. If me becoming the best version of myself brings him back I guess thats a win win.
Last updated on:2026-06-15T17:42:21+05:30
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i letting my progress belong to ME. once i stopped measuring my healing by whether my ex noticed, i started feeling lighter and more like myself again.
Thats what I'm doing and I'm kinda happy, I don't care if he sees me healing rn I hope he will see it once I'll be gone 🙏
if you knew with absolute certainty he was never coming back, would the things you're working on right now still be the things you'd choose for yourself?
Yes. What I am working on rn is my own peace I am talking to my friends, I am enjoying time with them and I am enjoying doing things by myself even if its just a little right now.
i kept telling myself i was focusing on me, but a small part of me was still hoping my growth would make my ex come back. that hope took a while to loosen its grip, and it hurt more than i expected.
I cant explain how helpful being in no contact has been. It has allowed me to return to myself which I wouldn't have been able to do if I was in contact with my ex. Everytime I've broken nc, I've had to restart the healing journey and I've realised now how much of a distraction that is to my inner work
I mean right now I'm not as sad as before because I broke no contact. I'm just worried it's because I still believe he can come back
honestly I just broke no contact after at four day streak. at least yours responds I get crickets!
He responded but yeah very late and very dry and cold at first :( Breaking no contact is good sometime...I hope you will be okay girl ❤️
@Inotnoya I can’t do any more I wanted to give him an amazing life I would of done absolutely anything for him he’d rather stay at his mums unemployed living off her and doing jobs for her. the life he’s had me a promising career absolutely gone. it breaks my heart because I wanted so much for him 😔😔