hey guys so I saw my bf in Jan when we started dating and then long distance. two different countries, and I went a visited him in July and we spent 3 weeks together. when I came back i had to have emergency surgery as I had an abscess on my breast, and when I got home everything was fine between us. the day before he ghosted me he was saying how in love he is with me and how he can't wait to marry me and spend life together then BAM he ghosted me last week, didnt reply to my messages on fb or insta or answer my calls, but he hasn't deleted me on either platforms. its kind of funny to this how some people do this to others. but yeah . wild times. I havent blown up his phone just general I hope your okay messages last week, but since realising I went to contact from Monday this week .
Last updated on:2026-08-16T10:21:30+05:30
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i think you’re doing the right thing by not blowing up his phone.
thankyou ❤️ yeah I have no guilt, i was a very loving and trusting gf, so no guilt is eating away at me to worry about anything.
how are you feeling now that you’ve had a few days of no contact, do you still want an explanation from him or are you starting to feel like the silence is an answer?
I wish I'd get an explanation , I deserve one. but I'm not relying on it, I'm feeling better, like I know my worth, but I wish I'd get an explanation, like being honest is not hard, idgaf whether you were cheating, met someone new, done with me, but Atleast just explain yourself, no need to be a dick about it.
i’ve had someone go from talking about our future every day to complete silence, and that sudden switch messed with my head BAD
it is such a horrible thing isn't it. people can be so evil