Hi, I broke up with him today, i mean I guess i did that. I said that I dont want to talk with him and if he can stop texting to me and now hes ignoring me for 5 hours and im so confused. maybe its funny and stupid but it was a long distance relationship, ofc we planned our future together but our relationship was bad ig. hes a muslim and im an atheist but it was not a problem but idk, he has different culture, about our future we wanted to live in spain together and i told him that I want him to finish his studies and he told me that he will but sth changed yesterday and he said that he wont finish his studies and he gonna join the army. he asked me if I have no problem if he will disappear for one or two years. I got so mad bc he knows that I need contact. idk what should I do, I love him and i wanna have my future with him but idk if he wants.
Last updated on:2026-08-16T08:31:12+05:30
Comments (7)
i'd try not to make any big decision tonight. i learned the hard way that wanting someone badly can make me ignore how scared and hurt i actually am about the future we were trying to build.
he said he might disappear for one or two years, did it feel like he was asking you to wait for him, or like he was already choosing a life without you?
both, but he already made a decision, we broke up
oh and he changed his mind, he said 10 years or 15
doing the “please stop texting me” thing and then staring at my phone when they actually stopped. five hours feels HUGE when you still love them, especially when your whole future was tied to that person
ikk im stupid but maybe i should try to fix it
yup know that feeling