Why is he ghosting me but still watching my socials?

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what do you guys think it means when the ghoster keeps you on socials and hasn't blocked or unfollow? its been 12 days since he spoke to me, didnt explain anything but has kept me on social media? weird right?

Last updated on:2026-08-17T00:57:05+05:30

Comments (15)

OpenAir0
OpenAir0 7 days ago

honestly, i’d try not to read anything into the socials. when someone ghosts, their silence tells me way more than whether they hit unfollow.

Zizi
Zizi 7 days ago

thankyou. ❤️

Zizi
Zizi 7 days ago

kinda feel nervous showing my presence on socials, I dunno why, its like I dont want them to know im online. dont wanna post or put up stories about anything, dont know why I feel like that .

foelay
foelay 7 days ago

has he been viewing your stories or interacting with anything, or is he completely silent everywhere?

Zizi
Zizi 7 days ago

I havent uploaded anything or shared anything and I haven't been online. he isn't silent though he has been more active and uploading stories

MissP
MissP 7 days ago

My ex also wont blocked me on social media but he keeps ignoring me so for my peace of mind im the one who blocked him and told him im closing this chapter of my life i just hope i can do this

Zizi
Zizi 7 days ago

wow congrats 👏 ❤️ you can do this

MissP
MissP 7 days ago

@Zizi We can do this all together 💪

Zizi
Zizi 7 days ago

yesssss we can. we got this ❤️

TrueSight
TrueSight 1 wk ago

my ex kept me on every social while completely disappearing, and i spent way too much time treating every view and follow as a hidden message. it drove me crazy

Zizi
Zizi 1 wk ago

guess I shouldn't look into it much xo

EasyPeasy188

There’s no point in doing that. If he hasn’t blocked you, don’t post anything on social media. Just stay quiet. Maybe he’ll get curious and reach out to you. But I don’t know if someone who ghosted you is worth waiting for. You shouldn’t wait for someone who can’t communicate and work through problems with you in the first place. I think you should act as if the relationship is over. Even if you had the best relationship in the world, you need to let it go and move forward. Because at the end of the day, he ghosted you, and that shows that he didn’t give you the respect you deserved.

Zizi
Zizi 1 wk ago

thankyou ❤️ yeah I haven't posted anything or shared anything or tried to give any subtle hints. was just randomly thinking about it, if I ghosted someone id just wanna completely disappear not stay on the person I ghosted social media accounts. thankyou for the beautiful words of encouragement so sweet. I appreciate you .

Wika0912
Wika0912 1 wk ago

tbh idk what u have to do that guy block u or sth (they block someone if they were so mad) but yeah its weird I think that he doesnt care but he keeps u as someone he can text if hes bored

Zizi
Zizi 1 wk ago

yeah true. very odd. ❤️