"After 40 days of no contact, we finally spoke. He reached out to talk and suggested meeting up, so we met. During our meeting, he told me that while we weren't talking, he was speaking to another girl and went out for coffee with her. In anger, I slapped him 3 to 4 times on his cheek. He got furious, left me alone in the middle of the road, and walked away. After I got home, we had another argument, and he blocked me. It's been 6 days of no contact now. What do you think, will he come back?"
Last updated on:2026-08-31T22:38:12+05:30
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i feel how badly you want to know he’ll come back. do you think you’re missing him right now, or are you mostly hurting because he chose to talk to someone else while you were apart?
The relationship you described if I'm being honest sounds quite toxic , there clearly seems to be a lot of fueled emotions. The arguing sounds intense . After not seeing eachother for a month and it still ending again the way it did again should tell you all you need to know that this isn't likely going to be a functioning healthy relationship for you both . I know it's hard but I don't think it's helful for yourself to wonder if he will comeback because it's perhaps the wrong question. Maybe ask yourself , Was it working ? is this how you imagined love to be ? . You did 40 days before so you have shown how stong you can be and you already have nearly done a week .If I was you I would rip the band aid of and focus on yourself , loving yourself , growing from this , don't let him or this relationship define you or give you validation on your self - worth . Relationships cab be hard but love should'nt be this hard . Focus on yourself and go through the healing process and it might not feel like it but as time goes on you will get clarity and you will feel better . I wish you luck and peace in your life . keep pushing through
Thank you for being so honest and taking the time to share this. You're right, i need to focus on myself and love myself first instead of waiting for someone who doesn't value me i will try my best to heal and move on.
i’ve had a breakup where one angry moment changed everything between us, and i spent weeks waiting for a message that never came.
girl trust me. he is a jerk. he is NOT deserved to get you. u are a wonderful soul. get out of that circle and explore more. Love yourself. Make him regret of losing you. Be strong and come back stronger. Get good people around you. Can be your family or friends.stay strong. you are not alone.
Probably not but what a jerk.
I honestly still think he might come back , they always come back.
that awful mix of jealousy, anger, and hurt where everything comes out before you can stop it. i know you’re hurting, but i’d be scared to focus too much on whether he comes back after what happened.
Prolly not. But good for you! What a jerk! Dont know the entire situation but if he cant sit comfortably with himself and even have the respect to grieve the time spent with you he has no business jumping into a new relationship