i need to get this out of my chest. the man i used to be talking to just doesnt leave my head. we met oktober 2025 so almost 1 year ago. he hurt me so so much it’s a long story but we texted and facetimed a lot for 2 months straight and we even hang out twice. everything was perfect. he was so sweet and he made me think that he wants something serious with me. but he lied often and i confronted him. after sending paragraphs to each other i just blocked him every where because it seemed like i was the only one trying to make this work. 2 weeks after we ended things i see this picture on this girls story. its him and her, kissing on valentines day. he bought her flowers with a note „Be my valentine“. i literally felt like i got shot when i saw this. i was nothing to him. 1 week later the girl posted more storys of them laying in bed together, cuddling and doing basic couple stuff. i still havent recovered i just want the pain to finally stop and forget that he ever existed. im literally so mad i cant put it in words. he changed me. i will never be the same girl again and i dont think i can ever take a man serious ever again.
Last updated on:2026-09-22T13:18:18+05:30
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that heart-drop feeling when you see your ex with someone else on social media is a whole different level of agony. i saw mine on a weekend trip with another girl less than a month after we ended things, and i literally threw up in my sink because it felt like my whole world got flipped upside down. you are not crazy for still feeling mad, that kind of cold betrayal completely reshapes how you trust people.
yes it’s so true im literally still processing it it’s insane! and i can really understand that u literally threw up because a whole weekend trip just 1 month after u guys sepereated is crazy work im so sorry. but we got this, we dont have to full the void like them they are busy traumatizing the next person and we are free from them and on our way to be the best version of ourselves!
I know it hits hard... I want you to know that the fact that he's with someone else that quick, doesn't have to do with your worth. It means that he cannot sit with himself. You both know that hes a liar and he wanted you to feel bad for being honest. You recognise that he wasn't right and that's important. Its hard to believe now but there are good people out there. Be strongg, we got it!