I had an important event today and for the whole preparation time dreams of him reappeared even though they were gone for a while but somehow after it was all over and I wanted to share the amazing news with someone he wasn't popping up in my head, I called my friends, my family and even told some random people I've just met but didn't think of him for a while.
I would say that's a good win and I'll take it
Last updated on:2026-10-13T22:50:12+05:30
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i love that you called your friends and family and even shared it with people you'd just met š„¹ did it feel different realizing afterward that he hadn't crossed your mind, instead of actively trying not to think about him?
this is the kind of progress i didn't even notice in myself until later. i stopped checking whether i missed her and started enjoying what was actually happening in my life. those little shifts hit different.
i love this win for you š„¹ i used to have my ex pop into my head every time something big happened, like my brain still thought he was my person to tell. the first time i got through a whole happy moment without that urge, i felt so FREE.
congratulations! I'm so proud of you because I know it isn't easy.
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