I removed and unfollowed my ex after 2.5 months of him breaking up with me. I was feeling pressured to post stories, because he viewed them (i didn't view his so i dont get stressed), but it was just feeding my ego falsely. It didn't matter, he disrespect me at the end and showed that he didn't care anymore. I was sometimes thinking "what if he has someone new and Im just embarrassing myself?"
I did it and regretted for blocking our "last connection". I sometimes remember the way he spoke to me and I feel angry and okay with doing it. I often feel jealousy. Today i posted 2 stories from a party and felt sad that he can't see them...
I know I can't re-add him soon, that'd be super awkward and maybe embarrassing but it's not like I haven't thought about it... It feels very confusing right now. I was thinking about deleting him and stop myself from "hopping" but at the same time I feel like i rushed things a bit for me.
Last updated on:2026-10-26T10:19:11+05:30
Comments (3)
when you felt sad that he couldn't see your party stories, did you miss sharing those moments with him, or was there a part of you hoping he'd see you having fun and feel something
I blocked him and I felt the same way, You feel a lot of regret at first, but you know it’s what’s best for the long run. And Keeping each other on social media shouldn’t be with keels you guys tied he knows What you look like so he doesn’t need to be reminded of it. don’t feel bad about it
Don't sweat it. Don't let IG or FB or any other rule your day. You did it, take it in stride and DO NOT overthink it right now. Next time you feel like you need him to see "you" on social media, walk outside for five minutes. Go back in. Still feel like it, walk 5 more. (Or, similar). Make the thoughts, that are tearing you down, build you up, or make you stronger..