It’s really hard for me to let him go and stick with no contact. I managed no contact for two weeks, but then I reached out again and only ended up disappointed. Has anyone else gone through this? How did you stay strong?
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always remember, if you love someone, it’s okay to admit it. Don’t overthink it love them. Be kind to them, protect them, and let go when necessary. If you are trying let go of someone whom you never want to lose again, letting go is important.
But if you’re here because you feel you have no other option—you want them, but you can’t do anything about it—trust me, have faith in God and pray.
Pray with me, my angels:
“Lord Jesus, I lift my relationship with [his name] to You. I ask for Your guidance, healing, and restoration in this situation. If it is Your will, bring him back to me in love and alignment with Your purpose. I trust You to work in our hearts and lives, even when I cannot see the outcome. Heal my heart and his heart, Lord. Remove any bitterness, pride, or confusion. Help us both to grow in love, patience, and understanding. Restore what has been broken according to Your perfect will. Lord, I release my need to control this. Work in our hearts according to Your will. Let love, peace, and Your plan prevail.”
Amen 🕊️❤️🩹
trust me, everything is gonna be all right after this this will take days weeks or months, but don’t give up if you love
Thank you so much for sharing this beautiful prayer with me 🙏💖 it truly means a lot and I’ll be keeping it close to my heart.
you already saw what happens when you break it. you reach out he gives little you feel worse. i kept repeating that same cycle until i got tired of the let down.
i thought two weeks meant i was stronger but then i cracked and texted. i remember sitting there after wishing i could take it back. it’s really normal to slip.
the last two days before the breakup, he was completely ignoring my texts and only gave me small one word responses to some of the things I said, then he out of nowhere sends a message saying we should break up. I tried pleading with him and sent him a long line of messages begging him to let us talk first but he never answered and I went to bed crying wishing it was all just a dream. But now things are so much better and the thought of reaching out to him disgusts me at this point, but in the beginning that's all I wanted to do. just remember that everything happens for a reason and you're better off without him, even if you don't realize it yet. Whenever you think about wanting to talk to him, just think about the actual reason of wanting to, what are you wanting to talk about and why? And is it really a conversation that you need to have with him or should you really have it with someone else? Honestly what really helped me was I began journaling and I included the things I wanted to say to him(mine was more angry tho), so maybe try that. Sometimes it's nice saying what you need to let out where only you can hear it.
I should start journaling ❤️
@GlowPalm83 yes definitely try it. it definitely served as some of the closure that I needed.
I reached out to get clarity and I came back with a reality check. His two words reply changed alot of things for starters, I told myself never again will i allow anyone to treat me that way.Since then I respect myself, I love myself and I put myself at the forefront.
all will be OK 👍
i broke two weeks of silence too. thought maybe he’d care if i reached out. instead i got one word replies and felt like trash. i hated myself for caving.
Oh yes, I have been there. I tried to sit in the pain and to take it one day at a time. Therapy is helping, as well as focusing on things I love doing!
same here xx reached out only to get nothing so now that is it. NO MORE !! From now on I will never lower myself to do this anymore. I have deleted his number and blocked on everything else. Stay strong xx