let me let him go

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It has been two weeks of no contact. In the past, whenever I reached this point, I couldn’t hold on—I would check on him and end up feeling frustrated. But this time, dear God, please give me the strength to continue with no contact and to let him go

Last updated on:2025-09-22T14:38:18+05:30

Comments (8)

WavyNJoy393
WavyNJoy393 7 mths ago

you are doing good keep on pushing

GlowPalm83
GlowPalm83 7 mths ago

thank you

Niggasg
Niggasg 7 mths ago

what’s the part that pulls you back the most—missing him, or hoping he’ll miss you? sometimes naming it makes it easier to sit with.

GlowPalm83
GlowPalm83 7 mths ago

feel like he misses me and is waiting for me to reach out to him. That feeling makes me want to contact him.

lovechat
lovechat 8 mths ago

what helped me was deleting the chat thread. not blocking, just removing the temptation to reread or check. also, i started writing letters i never sent. just to get the ache out without reaching for him.

GlowPalm83
GlowPalm83 7 mths ago

thank you

Simnga
Simnga 8 mths ago

same. i used to break no contact every time thinking maybe he’d changed or missed me. but it always ended with me feeling stupid and small. two weeks is HUGE. i know how hard that is. you’re doing something brave even if it doesn’t feel like it yet.

GlowPalm83
GlowPalm83 7 mths ago

thank you