Hey fam I am confused and hurt by my boyfriend's actions lately, after endless arguments and bad communication I caught him cheating. He says that I don't give him peace and he doesn't feel respected in the relationship whereas he doesn't show any effort and sees me once a month. How do I deal with all this .
Last updated on:2025-10-05T17:41:56+05:30
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damn, that’s rough. when he said you don’t give him peace… did that feel like an excuse to you, or do you think he really believes it?
it was an excuse, he doesn't wanna take accountability of his behavior
when someone flips it back on you like that, it’s usually them avoiding their own guilt. what helped me was just stepping back and asking, “is this love actually feeding me, or draining me
Yeah to me it's draining
i feel this so much. my ex used to tell me i was “too much” while he was barely putting in effort and sneaking around with someone else. the cheating hurt, but what really broke me was realizing i was begging for scraps of lo
Yeah that's how I'm feeling now. hope you healed and moved on from that sis.