I looked at his playlist of our relationship and he keeps changing the description of it. this time its him blaming me for our breakup. I cannot understand truely what I did to him. I fought so incredibly hard and did everything I could for this relationship and him. I think its hurts more he thinks im at fault for something he never communicated to me until he just decided to break up with me and tell me what was wrong. I try not to blame myself because of how he just expected me to know what was going on inside his head. I always begged him to communicate or tell me his feelings and he always shut me down. he thinks so low of me because I didnt know and it hurts worse than the breakup. someone I love so deeply and I would have given my whole world to just thinks the worse of me.
Last updated on:2026-03-15T07:25:50+05:30
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when you look back, were there times you tried to get him to open up and he just shut it down completely?
Yes there were times. I had encouraged him and tried helping him to open up to me. he always said he'd try to but never opened up. When the problem would get too much in his mind then he'd blow up on me about everything being my fault.
seems narcissistic to me
hi my ex used to post little things online that blamed me too, like rewriting the whole story without ever talking to me first. that part messed with my head more than the breakup itself. feeling like the villain in someone else’s version of the story is brutal.