Why is he leaving after 27 years?

My husband that I've been with for 27 years, married 15 decided a month ago that he wants to separate. we have 4 kids, I am so heart broken. He says he wants me to be happy but without him. I have begged and cried for him to want to work it out. I know we both have flaws and there has been a lot of up and downs. He is looking for a place and him still being in the home,but sleeping on the couch is killing me. I have started therapy and I have a few people I can talk to. We talked yesterday and he said limited words, I asked he is cared and he replied with I have been his best friend for 17 years and he obviously still cares about me, I am the mother of his kids and he doesn't want anything bad to happen to me.. but he also has been little emotions and cold.. A lot has been said on his part. I just wish he would have made things more clear and in my face before it came to this, and I feel like he will never want to work it out or try again. I believe I can change, and we could have a better relationship and stronger love.. but as of right now he says he loves me,but not in love.. 😭😭

Last updated on:2026-04-16T20:00:06+05:30