Why does it still hurt after three years?

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it’s been three years and it still hurts like it just happened. my body hasn’t caught up. i was with him for four years helped him build his startup stood by him when he lost his mom showed up for everything.
and then he met someone new and left. married her. now she posts him everywhere like her whole page is just them. all i got was a “thank you for supporting me” and him putting down my career before he walked away.
i loved him deeply still do. i believed in him no matter what his dreams felt like mine. now i keep thinking about their life together wondering if she supports him like i did wondering why he gave her everything i never got.
i see those posts about women who build men up from nothing and it makes me feel sick because that was me. so why wasn’t it enough. i didn’t deserve to be replaced like this.

Last updated on:2026-04-30T04:30:04+05:30

Comments (5)

SweetNinja924
SweetNinja924 2 wks ago

sorry you are still hurting. three-years is a long time to suffer. its been almost 3 years for me to
he still trying to contact me once and awhile. but I remember the pain, the cheating and just delete any voice mails. blocked phone. messenger. not sure how to block my voice mails yet.

Athlete861
Athlete861 2 wks ago

i was with someone through their worst too, held everything together, and when life got better they picked someone else to share it with

Swanfeather
Swanfeather 2 wks ago

do you still check her posts a lot or does it just hit you when they show up?

SlickJack762
SlickJack762 2 wks ago

you will find the right one someday..

haaddii
haaddii 2 wks ago

girl i am so sorry. i was in your place before too. i hope you really heal from this. words cannot help right now, only through time, you will. so feel the pain, until one day it wont be there anymore.