Why did she reach out on my birthday after 77 days?

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after 77 days she sent me;

"i couldnt resist.. happy birthday!!"

i repied ; " thats nice, thank you. hope you are good"?

she; " thank you for replying to me and that you dont resent me for sending you a message.. its not going bad, and thats a lot! but cant say its going good. how are you"


what does this mean?

Last updated on:2026-06-25T17:56:50+05:30

Comments (4)

QuickFlex928
QuickFlex928 7 mins ago

they will message but they dont want to fix the relationship

dddulcie
dddulcie 10 mins ago

was she the one who ended things or were you the one who pulled away? that changes how i read the "thank you for replying" part quite a bit.

Malinois
Malinois 1 hr ago

think so... i do want her back. but i am not going to be desperate or begging. she needs to take initiative ..
what is the best reply?

i do have options now, dating somebody that on paper is better than her.. but emotionally i have a hard time letting her go.. So dont want her back because i dont have options. and that is also important.

letitgo_user

what will you do next? will you continue the convo?