We only dated for four months but we had a lot of ups and downs and I believe I am trauma bonded. I ended the relationship and since he has tried to talk to me about considering working towards getting back together. I decided continuing communication was far too hard so I just straight up ignored him and haven’t responded since and I feel so guilty for that. the last message he sent says he loves me and he hopes we can try again in the future and I feel so guilty for not responding or even acknowledging it :(
Last updated on:2026-06-25T10:19:11+05:30
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do you feel guilty because you think you owe him a response, or because a part of you is still scared you're walking away from someone you love?
it’s never too late to.
no I can’t, not now anyway. He was very controlling. everytime we talk it feels like he’s angry with me and then when we stop talking I withdraw basically