"We were in a relationship for 4 years. Then he became very busy with his work, and I started bothering him a lot every day. I used to message him all the time. He told me not to message so much, but I couldn't control myself. Eventually, I made him swear an oath and told him to block me. He said, 'I won’t block you if you can go the whole day without messaging,' but I insisted that he do it anyway. He listened to me and blocked me.Now, 7 months later, he has come back. He blocked me on August 24th because I asked him to. For 2 months, I controlled myself, but then I missed him so I texted him. However, he wasn't online. He had gone out of the network area for work. When he returned, he replied and asked, 'Who is this?' I told him it was me, but he didn't give any further reply and went back out of the network for work again after a few days.On December 20th, he returned and messaged me from 2 or 3 different sides (accounts/apps), but I didn't answer. In January, he messaged again, and I still didn't reply. The next month, he went out of network to Hamila. He came back on March 20th and sent me a lot of messages, so I finally replied. I don't know what I should do now."
Last updated on:2026-05-01T18:34:45+05:30
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did you guys never talk again?
i pushed someone away when i was overwhelmed and needed them close all the time, and when they actually left it hit me way harder than i expected. that silence after feels LOUD.
"I don't understand anything. I asked him why he came back, and he said, 'I don't know.' I told him that’s not an answer, and he replied, 'I am confused.