Why can't i move on after him?

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i think it's my choice to not move on, maybe if i choose to move on i will accept the fact that we are done and i can't accept that...
i never dreamed of a family and a home of my own, but with him he made me dream about our beautiful life
now i can't imagine myself not having that simple dream

Last updated on:2026-05-19T02:23:57+05:30

Comments (8)

WildBeats675
WildBeats675 a mth ago

if feel same, but I think am scared, what if he come back!

mils
mils 2 mths ago

ur holding on to every last thing try let go

carmaccho
carmaccho 2 mths ago

you’re holding onto him, or more onto the life you pictured together

Sweettyy
Sweettyy 2 mths ago

dont World afer the life you had imagined falls down you are going to need a lot of time and love to be able to imagine a new life, give it time

crownking
crownking 2 mths ago

for me it wasn’t about forcing myself to move on, it was slowly accepting that the dream i saw was real, just maybe not with him. that part took time.

travelluv
travelluv 2 mths ago

i didn’t even want that “future” before him either, then suddenly i could see it so clearly. losing that dream felt just as painful as losing him 💔

GCtheLesser
GCtheLesser 2 mths ago

I’m having a really hard time evading the thoughts that she did this because she didn’t really love me. Honestly, nothing seemed wrong. I can only accept that it is I who is the reason, bc that’s my filter. I also dreamed big, and the closing of that dream is still too hard to bear

Jeyjey
Jeyjey 2 mths ago

i also can't believe that it all was lie, i used to see the love in his eyes
he was happy everybody can notice that, he even start being sensitive and kinder to people around him.. i still can't believe how this happened, how out of nowhere he wants nothing related to me after he was running to me everyday like i was his home...