I was with this guy for 6 months, and there was a time when I went on a trip and he ghosted me, but eventually he came back and called me. Now I’m on another trip that’s going to last a month. We said goodbye, and he was being so loving and affectionate, but the moment I landed, he completely ghosted me again. He removed me from Snapchat and leaves me on seen. I’m hurting because I genuinely don’t know what I did wrong, and I feel like I’m going crazy because I have absolutely no answers.
Last updated on:2026-06-29T01:51:12+05:30
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do you notice if this pattern only happens when you’re away from him, or does he go distant even when things are normal between you two?
i’ve been there, staring at my phone, trying to figure out what changed, and it makes you question yourself in a way that sticks
he is showing you who you are to him. when youre near, hes available, when you're away, he's ghost. thats not a good look in my opinion. to me that is someone who puts you up on self and takes you down only for his convenience. I would ghost him when you are back.
im sorry to here that. i can totally Imagine your pain Just Grab some friends and Go to the beach and do Something you Genuinely enjoy. Sometimes IT helps when you Talk about IT in Person so maybe Just a small group with the besties and a wine will do IT :)