Why did he betray me like this?

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We broke off the no contact two days ago and that was because I was drunk and I was on the floors and in the streets in tears. My friend, also drunk, called him and we talked after a month. The reason we broke up was because we had a fight in March and to make me jealous he went with his ex. Then he told me it was my fault because we had a fight. Eventually, from then on, we got back together three times until May 10th, when we finally broke up, and then he moved on with someone else just as quickly. I love him and I miss what we had, but I don't think I’d want to get back together, because he makes me feel unsettled and repulsed.

Last updated on:2026-06-29T11:59:57+05:30

Comments (8)

buttery1
buttery1 2 mths ago

i kept reminding myself that missing the good moments didn't erase the way i was treated, and that helped me stay away.

83Deep903
83Deep903 2 mths ago

what it was like talking to him after that month? did it give you any peace at all, or did it leave you feeling even more confused?

FunDream184
FunDream184 2 mths ago

you are right, he left me with sadness or something like that.

VanillaNL
VanillaNL 2 mths ago

i went back after someone betrayed me too, and every time i hoped it would feel safe again, it just reopened the same wound.

Louiseanne
Louiseanne 2 mths ago

noooo girl I know you have feelings i understand this but that is not your fault he clearly needs to see a therapist

FunDream184
FunDream184 2 mths ago

🥹😂 I agree❤️

FrostJet725
FrostJet725 2 mths ago

No No No, the fact that he blamed you for getting with his ex is not ok. Please move forward.

FunDream184
FunDream184 2 mths ago

I tryyy🩷❤️