I just got done venting to my sisters about how bad I felt about everything that I sacrificed. They told me that usually women go and see that they have lost a good man and try to spin back regardless of them being in a new relationship but honestly I don’t know how to feel. I was angry and I said some things I shouldn’t have said so now I feel guilty because of the image I gave to my sisters of my ex and also how I can’t hate someone I loved so much. I don’t wish a heartbreak on my worst enemy. I like 3 seconds away from checking her reposts knowing that I will only find the same things that made my heartache. I just wanna know why she doesn’t love me and is willing to give herself to another guy after only a small amount of time.
Last updated on:2026-06-29T04:58:11+05:30
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i stopped checking their reposts because it was like reopening a wound on purpose. i had to sit with the urge instead of acting on it, even when it felt impossible in my body. the urge passes, even when it feels like it won’t
i’ve been in that exact spiral, saying things out loud, then feeling guilty like i betrayed the love i still had.
what did your sisters say that stuck with you the most, the part that made you start doubting your own feelings again
Man, heartbreak really messes with your head. Try not to torture yourself by checking her reposts, it rarely gives you the answer you’re hoping for. The truth is, people cope differently, and someone moving on quickly doesn’t erase what you meant to them or what you gave to the relationship. Be kind to yourself right now. You loved deeply, and that’s nothing to be ashamed of.