hello! i haven’t been on here in a while but its been nearly a year now since me and my ex broke up and i wanted to say that it genuinely does get so much easier. you might still feel heavy but if you look back at my profile you’ll see it doesn’t last forever and time is your best friend. don’t tell yourself it was “right person wrong time” because genuinely if it was the right person it never would’ve been the wrong time and would’ve worked out. don’t think about what it could’ve been because it can’t be now. you need to move on eventually. just
keep going and start caring for yourself instead of everyone else. good luck 🤍
Last updated on:2026-05-13T17:00:18+05:30
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do you ever still catch yourself missing them, or does it feel more like peace now most days?
i’ll think of them sometimes and it can hurt sometimes but i know it’s over and i’m at peace with that because i know it wouldn’t ever work again
i used to tell myself “right person wrong time” for YEARS just to hold on, and letting go of that idea was honestly what started freeing me.
good for you
I cant wait to be at your stage x
thank you. you give me hope
I think that I wasn’t enough for her. I burn with the sting that I wasn’t enough. why not? this is sorta like what I’ve felt for a long time in other scenarios: I’ve never been enough for someone. what’s wrong with me?!!? why all the rejection? there were no bad moments, no fights, no cross words, nothing. I felt like it was what I’d always wanted.
you are enough, you are perfect in everyday. She just wasn't your person
you’ve got to stop questioning it. you weren’t the problem, if it’s meant to be it will be no matter what you do right or wrong so you need to stop questioning it and i promise you it will become easier but it has happened now and you can’t go back and change what you’ve done or said but you can change who you become. you’ve got to move on eventually and the sooner you realise that, the easier it will be. i promise you it will be okay and just don’t think about what it could’ve been or what you could’ve done because it will never help
@DreamyWay697 that doesn’t sound right to me, but thanks.
@DreamyWay697 I doubt I will ever be anyone’s person. but my dog loves me.
What should i do thogh it feels like it does
it always feels the worst for the first few months but just trust that with time you’ll heal and it will be easier