He treated me so badly after we broke up, ignoring me, leaving me on opened. We broke up because he came up with the excuse that he can't change. Yet he changed for the worse. He didn't tell our friends the full truth why we broke up. He started acting distant. He lied to me. He said he wouldn't hurt me. He promised a future with me. I gave him chance after chance. I was too kind. Anyone can change, he just didnt want to. I changed myself so much for him. On top of that he started hanging around with this girl knowing that I was insecure ever since he lied to me about playing games with her. And then. Then he had the audacity to go and confess his feelings to another girl. What made him think that a week was enough for him to be a better person. No one moves on that quick after a nearly 2 year relationship. Now im wondering if any of it was ever real, if he ever loved me he never stopped to think how I might feel. Ever since we broke, ive had to move on on his terms and he can just switch off the pain and have feelings for another girl. It took me so long to build up my trust and he destroyed it. Ive shown him nothing but respect and kindness since we broke up and he has treated me with such disrespect. On top if that hes been chatting bad about me saying I have an attitude and I was the issue in the relationship and then he came up with the excuse that he doesn't remember chatting bad about me. I have literally respected his wishes and left him alone like he wanted. Ive lost a friendship because of him and I barley see my other friends because of him avoiding me. He doesn't care that ive been crying myself to sleep, or struggling to eat cos I feel sick all the time he only cares about himself and I regret ever dating him. I just want to stop thinking about him and feeling sick.
Last updated on:2026-05-10T16:02:33+05:30
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i’ve been in that place where you keep giving chance after chance because you love them and then suddenly they act like YOU were the problem all along. the part where he moved on so fast while you’re still barely eating and crying at night,
do you think part of what’s keeping you stuck is still hoping he’ll finally admit how badly he hurt you? because i waited a LONG time for that from my ex and it never came.
oh dear girl just block him and move on you deserve better
Delete everything of he's block him and move on I know it's not easy but choose urself.
keep your head up, keep moving forward, and know you're not alone friend ❤️
My dear, I'm a girl and I understand exactly what you're going through, but remember, he doesn't deserve you and never will. He's a deceiver, a liar, poison, and a coward because he couldn't face you, knowing he was completely wrong. I know it's difficult, but try to go back to the way you were before him. Do what you loved: sports, food, games, swimming, anything. Remember that you always deserve the best, and don't compromise with someone who doesn't value you. Remember, if you get back to your old self and improve, he'll come crawling back like a fool. But don't give in to him. All my love to you. You are strong.