If I changed everything about me that you hated, would I still be the same person that you loved?
if I got rid of every imperfection and every sign that I wasn’t the same girl you fell in love with, would I still be me?
I wouldn’t.
I wouldn’t be the same person, and I don’t think you would have loved me.
My imperfections and my mistakes and my errors and my everything is what makes me, me.
Hurting you isn’t a part of it. But what I feel and what I express is. And I’m sorry that it ever hurt you.
I can’t be without you, but I know I have to. At least for this week, this month, this summer.
- 🩶
Last updated on:2026-05-13T19:26:03+05:30
Comments (4)
hi do you feel like they were asking you to grow in healthy ways, or were you slowly changing just to avoid losing them
he’s definitely asking for healthy change. and I never realized how much he needed until it was too late.
trying to shrink every part of myself to become “easier” to love and i ended up not recognizing myself anymore. the right person shouldn’t make you feel like your whole personality is the problem
i never felt this way before. i know what parts of me are the problem, but in the rejection heavy, abandonment ready mindset im in? my whole person might as well be the problem. i know he loves the right parts of me… just not the ones that hurt him.