Why can't i stop missing him after one month?

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Today marks one month since our breakup. I saw him in my group of friends, like every Friday.
I miss the old him. I wish he'd text me, tell me he wanted to try again.
I don't understand why he didn't want to change. He wasn't committed, he was good, but nothing more. I miss that peace. I wish he could read this and understand that he means everything to me.

Last updated on:2026-05-18T01:56:41+05:30

Comments (7)

TDHKL
TDHKL a mth ago

seeing them in the same friend group after a breakup is its own kind of torture because they’re still THERE, just not yours anymore. i remember missing the comfort of my ex more than the relationship itself some days.

Caroline
Caroline a mth ago

I can't break up the friendships because of this, they were there before

Hyperbio
Hyperbio a mth ago

when you say you miss the peace, do you think you miss HIM most, or the feeling of having someone familiar beside you every week?

Caroline
Caroline a mth ago

The second option. I'm aware of everything and I know it's better this way. I just love him.

DreamyWay697
DreamyWay697 a mth ago

I feel you, i was in the same position. I miss what we had, but him leaving was a blessing. I finally saw how much I was abandoning myself by patiently waiting for him to choose me and commit. I remember the conversation we had when I told him I wanted to be his girlfriend. He said he was exclusive to me but he will ask me to be his girlfriend when he is ready. 2 months later "im scared of commitment". boy bye 👋

DreamyWay697
DreamyWay697 a mth ago

I want him to text me, but the fact he hasn't means hes moving on and I should too

TofuNod150
TofuNod150 a mth ago

I feel you and I hear you. it hurts me that my ex is so easy for him to just walk away from the last 4 years