Why did she break up if she said religion didn't matter?

I liked a girl and she liked me back but the problem is that we are from different religion.
So we talked a lot of times about this topic with each other before something serious happens.
She told me that she doesn’t mind and that religion can’t stop us, so we entered in a relationship based on the things she said. After a month she broke up with me because she told me that doesn’t want to marry outside her religion… What’s wrong with this girl?!😂
So we are in no contact but she still likes me…

Last updated on:2026-05-21T12:40:16+05:30

Comments (8)

fragile01
fragile01 3 wks ago

when she said she doesn’t want to marry outside her religion, did it feel like her own decision or more like something she’s been raised to believe she has to follow?

DriftDash470
DriftDash470 3 wks ago

nice question… yes it felt more like something she’s been raised to believe she has to follow because if it was her own decision she wouldn’t tell me in the first place that she doesn’t mind…

tornheart1
tornheart1 3 wks ago

same ..... she probably meant it when she said religion wouldn’t matter, but once things started feeling real the fear and family pressure hit HARD. feelings and reality don’t always move together.

DreamyWay697
DreamyWay697 4 wks ago

seems like the attraction was very strong between the both of you. She may have just come to the conclusion that in the long run, it may not work out. You can love a person deeply but they still may not be right for you

DriftDash470
DriftDash470 4 wks ago

but why would she tell me in the beginning that she doesn’t mind and that she will fight for it even with her family if they don’t accept it? Why did she give me hope in the first place if she knows it will not workout?

DreamyWay697
DreamyWay697 3 wks ago

@DriftDash470 its possible that she had hope too, but over time reality can set in

SweetNinja924
SweetNinja924 4 wks ago

sounds like her family my have gotten to her. Religion is a tough thing. Some can live with different partners having it . But stuff will come up. like children what church to get married in. how much money you give the church it goes on and on. probably not your best choice unless one of you converts.

DriftDash470
DriftDash470 4 wks ago

but why would she tell me in the beginning that she doesn’t mind ans that she will fight for it even with her family if they don’t accept it? Why did she give me hope in the first place if she knows it will not workout?