So this girl is always in a bad mood recently, even over things that don’t make sense. I’m really tired of being the one to give in, always trying to help her and always being there for her, but it feels like I’m the one doing something wrong all the time.
And I really, really hate the way she’s treating me in this relationship. But I’m 90% sure that if I complain, she’ll blame me, and it’ll all feel like it’s my fault and that she’s the one ending the relationship. I’m not good with words. This is too much for my brain to process.
Last updated on:2026-05-26T20:50:12+05:30
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i’ve been in this exact spot where i kept shrinking myself just to avoid another argument. after a while i started feeling anxious every time my phone lit up because somehow everything became my fault too
realizing i didn’t need the “perfect” words to say i was unhappy. i kept overthinking every sentence because i was scared of the reaction, but staying silent was eating me alive.
do you actually still feel safe bringing up your feelings to her, or are you already expecting punishment the second you say something real?
Have a talk with gal and make her understand ur situation.if she dont listen , tell her the outcome and leave her.Whats the point pf being in a relationship where u cant say anythjng and live in a constant pressure.
talking about it and communicating with your significant other before making a decision like this could help. I sadly never even got that.
if she can't stand how you feel, especially with a relationship so serious, she doesn't deserve you. even if you feel like its your fault, it most likely isn't. i just had a similar situation, and on the otherside it's better to realize your worth 💗
feel pretty good to let it all out