Basically we were long distance for like 5 months and were supposed to meet in July. We broke up like a week ago and I miss him, when we broke up he said he needed time but still wanted us to stay friends. I don't feel the need to send him a message but I want him to come back
But if he comes back I'm scared he might have someone else and I don't wanna stay just friends cuz I love him. it's "only" been a week but I genuinely miss him so much and we have the same friends so its really hard for me...(btw he was avoidant and I'm more of the anxious type...)
Last updated on:2026-06-10T17:38:59+05:30
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when he said he needed time, did he give any idea what that actually meant or did he leave you hanging with that uncertainty?
He just said he needed time, it wasn't specific just "I think I'm gonna need to take some time for myself" and yeah thats it and thats why I'm still hoping for something between us because he never said we couldn't get back together after working on ourselves
me was not trying to figure out if he'd come back, i just focused on getting through the next day because my brain kept making up a hundred future scenarios.
i did long distance too and that first week felt brutal. i'd wake up wanting to tell him something and then remember we weren't us anymore
happens to the best of us...stay strong 💕.