Why i reached out to my ex: a complicated love

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so yeah I sent him a message and for now I feel relieved. I know our relationship was complicated but I still love him and needed to ask what I asked

Last updated on:2026-06-11T17:45:14+05:30

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BrokeME
BrokeME 15 hrs ago

was the relief more about finally telling him how you feel, or are you hoping for a specific answer from him?

Inotnoya
Inotnoya 15 hrs ago

Both! I am waiting for a specific answer but yeah I'll get it later I think lmao

sakasiru
sakasiru 20 hrs ago

if i learned anything, it's that getting the words out can be its own kind of peace. i spent so long rehearsing conversations in my head that sending the message felt like putting down a weight.

Inotnoya
Inotnoya 18 hrs ago

Yep! I'm so glad I did because now we're talking again even if its short conversation. At first I wanted to give him more space and let him come back but then I realized I know him more than anyone else and HE WON'T just come back like that especially if I don't show I care

queenoo
queenoo 22 hrs ago

i remember staring at my phone after hitting send, feeling sick and relieved at the same time. sometimes you just need to say the thing that's been sitting in your chest for months

Inotnoya
Inotnoya 18 hrs ago

Exactly, and well sometimes you can expect the answer but at least you said what you had to say and you feel better after this cuz u can clearly put your mind where it is supposed to be

BlazeFlick359
BlazeFlick359 yesterday

good