I'm about to finish my final year of school in two days and honestly I still haven't fully moved on from my ex. It's been over three years since we broke up yet there's something about her that I just can't seem to let go of.
Every now and then we'll text for hours catch up like no time has passed and then go months without speaking again. Recently we both agreed it would be nice to meet up for an hour or two and catch up properly but it never ended up happening. I had even bought her a birthday gift but never got the chance to give it to her.
What makes things harder is that she still does little things that leave me wondering. Sometimes I catch her looking at me or she'll ask me questions she already knows the answer to. Maybe it means something maybe it doesn't. I genuinely can't tell if there's still a chance for us to reconnect or if I'm just holding onto hope because I miss what we had.
I made mistakes during our relationship and I've spent a lot of time wishing I could make things right. With only one day of school left and prom coming up I'm wondering if I should try talking to her again and see where things stand.
I'm not sure if that's a good idea or if I'm reading too much into things. I'd really appreciate any advice from people who have been through something similar.
Last updated on:2026-06-18T21:24:12+05:30
Comments (3)
if i were you, i'd rather have a real answer than spend another year wondering. i reached a point where the "what if" hurt more than hearing the truth ever did.
when you two text for hours, does she ever bring up the relationship or talk about seeing you again, or is it mostly you picking up on the little things in person?
It doesn’t seem to be going anywhere. For your sake and mental health, block her and move on. You broke up and you should move forward with your life, not backwards. You ended for whatever reason so clearly it wasn’t worth holding onto. There are so many people in this world, go out and find someone who won’t play games.