how to I get over someone who was perfect for me, we had a great emotional connection, great sexual connection, great friendship, he was my best friend but he hates me because of some lie of mum. it was long distance we were together for four years and we ended may 20 th and he ghosted me for two weeks and then dumped me over email and refuses to talk to me for five weeks.
I find connections but I can find nothing like this and at 37 I have never found anything like it before.
I feel I’ll be settling in my next relationship why did I find my perfect partner and for this to end like this 😞😞😞
Last updated on:2026-06-27T00:32:11+05:30
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getting ghosted, dumped over email, and left with no chance to talk would shake anyone.
did he ever tell you he believed the lie from your mum, or did he just shut the door without giving you the chance to explain?
just shut the door no explanation after four
long distance helps the recovery for sure
i lost someone i thought was my person too, and because it ended so suddenly i convinced myself i'd never feel that kind of connection again. i was wrong, but i couldn't believe that for a long time