after all this time I blocked them
last words were when I asked you really don’t care about me do you? answer “I tried to”
came to get a suitcase they needed and the cruelty of it all literally stops my heart.
I had taken days off for their birthday.
and they had to humiliate me one last time said all I did was sit around and not work and I said but I took days off for you.
I can’t take back days off at least not at my work.
I am so incredibly sad. my heart is hurting so much literally.
I can’t do this anymore.
Last updated on:2026-06-29T02:46:02+05:30
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my ex broke up with me like 4 days ago through a text message...he wrote to me a very long long message and then blocked me on every social media platforms.....i didn't get to say my side of the story....we didn't end on good terms or bad terms..we ended on his terms ....it hurts because I didn't do anything...i still have these questions in my head and nobody apart from him who has the answers....am trying so much not to go back to the texts we shared...am now on my 4th day of no contact
I blocked them because they are mistreating me on a daily basis. I’m sorry they blocked you. maybe your ex got mad and will unblock you it seems everyone does return but doesn’t mean it is for the best.
my boyfriend say me very abusive words even our one month of long distance he messaged his ex ...there relationship was 7 years back ...and we re 3 years of relationship but he donot care about me at all ...I feel worthless like I donot deserve anything I give me my everything...love care respect but he never respect me he always blames me for his failure whenever he is in mood ....I wanna leave him I cannot ...I donot know I am so weak I always ended up talking to him...and I feel he was missing he never miss me he still talk abusively you re negative...whenever I share something bad happened to me he be like why you throw your negativity on me ....I am very tensed I am in this vicious cycle I am loosing myself ...I donot know what should I do
I can relat to being treated like dirt. my ex wanted to take a "break" so I agreed, found out she just wanted to take the break so she could sleep with a guy shes been talking too since before we ended.
she told me flat out she didnt love me anymore when we spoke about this and told me she saw me as someone she can talk to but not attracted too. Then she went on to tell me about her new relationship and I told her that was enough.
I've blocked her, and tried to focus on myself. started going to the gym and doing hobbies again. lost 15lbs already. im feeling like I lost someone so close to me and it hurts. but I feel like I can continue on without her and be better without her.
its hard but hang in there things do get a little easier with time.
i'm so sorry you're carrying this. i really hope you're talking to someone you trust, not just us, because this kind of pain can get so heavy. if "i can't do this anymore" feels bigger than heartbreak, please reach out to a crisis helpline where you are. i've had to do that once, and i'm really glad i did.
i blocked my ex after one last cruel conversation too, and those final words stayed in my head for weeks. i kept replaying them, but they never changed who i was or how deeply i loved.
I know who I am it’s just so cruel to be rejected in such a foul way. I never ever ever expected to be treated like dirt
i'm so sorry. can i ask, was this the first time they'd spoken to you that cold, or had they been pulling away for a while before the breakup?
not the first time they spoke this cold but first time they didn’t take it back out of anger