I was speaking to someone on this app and they said they're friends with their ex and that they have hope that something will change and they will be more than friends. This is making me question my choice of NC. I really wanna talk to him again. I miss feeling the way I felt when we spoke.
Last updated on:2026-08-25T21:17:23+05:30
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i've learned that someone else's relationship with their ex doesn't mean contact is right for me. NC hurt like hell at first, but every time i broke it, i ended up back at the same starting point.
what do you think you'd actually want from him if you reached out, a conversation, friendship, or secretly hoping he'd want you back?
seeing someone else stay friends with their ex and convincing myself that meant i should reach out too, but i was really just looking for a reason to hear from mine again.
it will delay your healing process
mai I ask one thing that if I am not contact task what if he will message what should I do becz we were talking till today should I ignore or just cold reply and if I replied for the sake of work do i have to do it again from the that no contact task
If you broke up. I'd ignore and only reply of he talks abt work stuff.
@Hearteyedgirl101 thankssssss
I tried maintaining a friendship but found that it held back my healing. The longer I stsy in no contact the easier it's becoming to move on fully and feel more like myself.
I find the same thing. It js hinders progress, but I js feel alone again
@Hearteyedgirl101 Sending you a hug, and encouragement. You're healing, and becoming stronger every day:)