i miss him.
we broke up just a few days ago and he still texts me but he doesn’t say any of the things i’m hoping to hear. He hasn’t taken responsibility for what happened or acknowledged any of the things that went wrong between us.
He’s already removed our pictures from social media. He says he never wanted things to end this way but at the same time he hasn’t said that he wants to make things better or that he’s willing to do anything differently.
And here i am trying not to reach out while missing him more than i can explain. I still catch myself waiting for his name to pop up on my phone hoping he’ll say something that gives me a reason to believe things could be different. Right now i miss him so much that the comfort i want feels like it could only come from him.
Last updated on:2026-09-15T13:05:03+05:30
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Same boat as you girl 🥺 We got this!
i was looking for reassurance in his texts, because every time i did, i ended up feeling worse when he still didn’t take responsibility or talk about changing.
when he texts you, do you feel comforted for a little while, or does it leave you even more anxious and hoping for something he isn’t saying?
sitting with my phone in my hand hoping my ex would finally say the one thing i needed to hear. those messages that never gave me what i actually needed somehow made me miss him even more.
thank you for sharing we are in this together. Writing and doing the tasks on this app help, other journaling apps too, and writing and thinking about the relationship and its moments and accepting that we can't change anyone but we can change ourselves. I'm waiting for my girlfriend Kailyne to message me because she loves me, well she lost feelings for me and here i am, its been a week. every text is a trigger >.> on the list it goes. I hope you take care and do what's best for you because you're worth it ♡