i've spent the last 5 months in no contact, still carrying hope in the back of my mind. Should I finally let go of my ex? I'd appreciate honest advice.
Last updated on:2026-06-26T17:17:12+05:30
5 months of no contact: should i let go of my ex?
i've spent the last 5 months in no contact, still carrying hope in the back of my mind. Should I finally let go of my ex? I'd appreciate honest advice.
Last updated on:2026-06-26T17:17:12+05:30
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this made my heart drop because the situation sounded similar to mine, as it’s also been over 5 months of no contact for me. And also what you said about being insecure too.
5 months no contact and mutual doubt means it’s already ended reaching out will likely reopen the wound not fix it
the hardest part isn't letting go of him, it's letting go of the version of the relationship you're building in your head after 5 months of silence. reaching out again won't give you closure, it'll just restart the cycle of waiting and wondering.