Why am i struggling on day three of no contact?

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today is the time of no contact I start getting upset and wanting to reach out I’m struggling today. I really am so definitely need support today. nothing works up to this point distraction anything but I want to get past my record off three days. I hit three days today at 3:20pm. I’m going to be on here a lot venting and talking so please don’t judge

Last updated on:2026-06-26T23:26:58+05:30

Comments (5)

PetroPPDX
PetroPPDX 7 hrs ago

its so hard. I still struggle with this. we broke up march 11 and its still really hard. but hes been really awful so im back to 5 days of n9 contact. nc he was cycling every 7 to 8 days of contact8ng me but it was never productive or nice. ive stopped looking at everything thing bc it only triggers me and got a new number bc I started a new job so he cant call or text. only thing he could do is email and he hadn't. im hopping he is done with the hurt. I needed to stop taking bait as well.

Louiseanne
Louiseanne 3 hrs ago

sounds my like ex Erik

Jejjja
Jejjja 7 hrs ago

i'm really rooting for you today. when i wanted to text my ex, i made one promise to myself, just make it to bedtime before doing anything. some days that's the only goal that got me through.

Louiseanne
Louiseanne 3 hrs ago

so far I’ve not which is good but I found if I write on here the feeling goes away a bit

thoughts
thoughts 10 hrs ago

day 3 was ALWAYS the hardest for me, and i remember staring at my phone every few minutes. vent as much as you need, nobody should judge you for trying to get through a day that feels this heavy