i just stopped reaching out because i needed the silence more than another conversation. no contact still helped me heal, even with that little door technically still open.
Im in the same boat. I haven't blocked her, and I dont even know if she had blocked me since I havent reached out. The reason I havent blocked her is Firstly I want to see if she will circle back and reconsider. Secondly, I do care for her and dont want to permanently shut the door if she one day is in trouble or is going through something and needs my help.
I don't want to block him because there's a conversation we haven't finished yet maybe am doing no contact for him to want him back but another part of me wants to heal l just don't know what l want 😭
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yes, as long as you both don’t break it. if someone breaks no contact, then blocking might be the best thing for mental peace.
yeah, i think it's okay
i just stopped reaching out because i needed the silence more than another conversation. no contact still helped me heal, even with that little door technically still open.
is there a reason you don't want to block him, or does keeping that option there just feel less final right now?
Im in the same boat. I haven't blocked her, and I dont even know if she had blocked me since I havent reached out. The reason I havent blocked her is Firstly I want to see if she will circle back and reconsider. Secondly, I do care for her and dont want to permanently shut the door if she one day is in trouble or is going through something and needs my help.
I don't want to block him because there's a conversation we haven't finished yet maybe am doing no contact for him to want him back but another part of me wants to heal l just don't know what l want 😭
I think it’s okay if you informed him that the boundary is there.
l didn't inform l just told him l will stop texting for him to think