Having a good day and realizing you can't tell him about it
Remembering his gentleness but knowing how he treated you in the end
Telling everyone youre over it until you see something that reminds you of him and that makes you reset all of your progress
Remembering his past self until you realize hes a completely different person now
Last updated on:2026-07-25T10:45:42+05:30
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Hey Doll, you’re definitely not alone in that feeling. As time goes on, I’m alternating between crying and hurting because I miss him and he’s gone & crying because I’m finally processing all of the things that were done and said during those 5 years that I forced myself to hold in because I wanted to make it work. I think a lot of us experience grief in layers and you’re not alone.
12 days is really fantastic. I don’t go into the chat on here at all because I don’t want to consume all of the heartbreak going on- however, the journal has been surprisingly helpful. It went from short paragraphs about my heartache to a place where I vent or write about something that I would’ve told him about.
hm having a good day and reaching for my phone to tell my ex, then remembering i couldn’t anymore
when you see him now or think about how different he is, does it feel like you’re grieving the person he used to be more than the relationship itself?
I relate ... unfortunately
i feel you my girl