we broke up a while ago and I still really miss her.
I think about her every single day. I genuinely thought we had something really special and I miss the connection we had more than I know how to explain. I miss just talking to her asking her about the random little things going on in her life and having those conversations that probably seemed insignificant at the time but mean so much to me now.
Even the smallest things remind me of her.
The TV shows we used to watch together. Ordering KFC. Seeing The Good Place somewhere and immediately thinking of her. It’s crazy how someone can become attached to so many ordinary parts of your life without you even realizing it until they’re gone.
More than anything I miss the simple things. I’d give anything to just sit next to her put on a TV show cuddle and hold her again. I miss feeling close to her. I miss having her there.
I honestly thought we were going somewhere. I thought what we had was going to become something more and I really believed there was a future for us.
I still think about our trip to Rye a lot. It’s one of my favourite memories along with all the stupid little moments that probably meant nothing to anyone else like her cheating at Cluedo 😂.
Those are the things I find myself missing the most. Not just the relationship but the tiny moments that made it ours.
And what makes it even harder is that it’s almost a year ago now that we first started talking.
A whole year.
It’s strange to think that someone who became such a big part of my life can now just be someone I have to miss from a distance.
I just wish I could go back for one evening. Watch something together order some KFC laugh about something stupid and hold her again.
I really miss her.
Last updated on:2026-09-09T00:45:12+05:30
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missing the everyday stuff more than anything, just having someone to call and share stupid little things with. those memories can make you miss the closeness so badly, even when you know the relationship is over.
This is my first comment on this app. He cheated and I left 3 weeks ago, we were together for 3 years. Planning a wedding, dreaming about family.. you know…
We liked the same food, music, shows, everything. Now, I’m just trying to find some new stuff to like (if you ate KFC together, try MC Donalds for a change). Try to find something that she didn’t want to do and do that.. I know it sounds lame but it helped me since I left. There is so much work and emotions to overcome in the future but I want to believe that happiness is just around the corner. Be strong
that one-year mark sounds like it’s making everything feel even more real. do you think you miss her specifically, or mostly the life and little routines you had with her?
i still had random things tied to my ex too, certain shows, food, little jokes, and it was brutal how ordinary moments could suddenly feel so heavy.