I'm talking with a guy with no romantic intention but I kinda feel that I feel great with him because he gives me attention and that's what I need after the breakup.
we know each other for over 2 years but we started texting this month cause I saw him in the subway and texted him.
we have met 2 times bc he asked, and I feel really good with him, I open up a lot, I laugh with him and also I feel him sometimes when I'm not doing okay and he tries to help me and so but I don't want to get attached to him, romantically or not, I don't want to depend on someone to be okay again but I fear it might be too late...
Last updated on:2026-09-21T10:26:12+05:30
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i feel this in my bones. after my last split, i leaned so hard into a friendship just because having someone text me back made the silence hurt a little less, and the guilt hit me immediately. it is so hard not to latch onto that warmth when you're still recovering from being left out in the cold.
attachment is dangerous I agree I got attach with my ex and I also said this to him during the relationship he said that"you were attached I was sensible" this things haunts me