about 5 days ago I sent a letter to my best friend trying to repair our relationship because she stopped speaking to me while I was dating my ex because she didn't like how much time I was spending with him or traveling to see them and she left out but she didn't communicate this to me. I also stopped talking to her because she was getting impatient with me staying with him because he was abusive and I could tell she didn't have the patience to keep talking to me or or providing me a safe place to stay with him while I figured things out. so I stopped talking to her and she stopped talking to me and then I reached out to her a few months later and she didn't pick up my call or respond to my text messages and reached out to her again once things were ending between us and she still didn't respond. she communicated to my family how she really felt about me but didn't communicate to me directly. so I sent her an apology message explaining that I was sorry that I didn't know that she felt left out or that I paid more attention to my ex and I didn't come visit her as much as she would have wanted. but I had no idea because she didn't communicate this to me and I just explained to her that it wasn't okay to give me the silence she meant for a year. she didn't respond to a letter but I tried to call her today and she didn't pick up. she tried to call me back but it went to voicemail and I missed her call. so now I'm stressing but she's upset that her call went to voicemail. anyways, I don't know how she feels and it's stressing me out. I just feel like I keep getting rejected because I got rejected by my ex and my best friend. sometimes I feel like I can't do anything right. any advice.
Last updated on:2026-10-09T01:14:20+05:30
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i’ve had a friendship fall apart while i was already dealing with a painful relationship, and every missed call felt like another rejection. you were dealing with an abusive ex too, you were trying to survive.
Thank you for the coming words of support.
are u still together with abusive ex ? I hope u stop repairs relationship with abusive men it's dangerous I understand why u bestie mad she worry u safety I think better u go her house talk deeply she u bestie u not together ex anymore
Thank you for the kind words and support.
i think the voicemail part is probably hitting way harder because you’re already scared of losing people.
That is so true. that is an excellent point.b thank you for sharing
feel for you because you’re carrying the rejection from your ex and your best friend at the same time. do you think some of the panic right now is about what she might say, or is it more the fear that she might reject you again?
I'm afraid that she might reject me again. I just don't feel good enough for anyone right now. like I can't do anything right.