Why am i still sad? reflecting on day 100 post-breakup

So 100 days ago me and the love of my life broke up and it’s been the hardest thing I have ever gone through seeing them move on and find someone new. But today when I woke up I had this random motivation and was thinking “why should I wait for someone who wouldn’t wait for me and is happy without me” I’m over here being upset all the time when their living their best life. So today I have done exercise, gone sugar free and just did little things to help myself and it’s actually making me so much happier

Last updated on:2026-10-09T23:47:12+05:30

Comments (6)

CapableEmu
CapableEmu 2 wks ago

100 days of carrying that pain and watching them move on must've been brutal. 🥺 i remember seeing my ex with someone new and feeling like i was the only one still hurting, so i’m really happy you woke up today and chose YOURSELF for once

Malina891
Malina891 2 wks ago

i love this shift for you. when i was heartbroken, i started with tiny things like walking and eating better, and slowly my days stopped revolving around what my ex was doing. keep doing these little things for you, even on the days when it hurts again.

MuffZip611
MuffZip611 2 wks ago

I am so proud of you 💕

suppanda
suppanda 2 wks ago

does this feel like the first time you've genuinely wanted to move forward for yourself, or have you had little moments like this before that didn't quite stick?

BoldSpirit426
BoldSpirit426 2 wks ago

I’ve always had the thought that I shouldn’t be waiting around and stuff then trying to work on myself but then end up missing them so badly

DreamAndLove314

I am proud of you stranger