1 month almost 2 months has been since we broke up. she found out that before our relation ship I used to look at a lot of other women but now I’ve changed and she won’t take me back, iam sad but I respect it. at first we unadded but ofc I had to try to convince her 1 week after to stay and fix everything she didn’t want to, so she blocked me. I really really loved this woman deep down of my heart even tho it was long distance. I met her once it was so nice meeting her I’ll never forget the moment
fast forward 1 month later, she unblocked me everywhere and viewed my profile. it’s been happening every weekends. 3 weekends so far viewing once or twice. then she blocked me everywhere except TikTok. And her birthday is the 21st I’m thinking abt wishing her a happy birthday but idk.
what should I do?
Last updated on:2026-10-21T02:23:38+05:30
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are you hoping that wishing her a happy birthday might open the door to fixing things, or are you just missing her like crazy right now?
I am ready for a no anyways, but yh open doors. thing is I don’t even know if it will go good if we even end up talking again
getting unblocked every single weekend just so she can peek at your page is total TORTURE. my ex used to unblock me every few Friday nights to stalk my stories and then block me again by Monday morning, and it drove me crazy trying to decode what it meant
how did you manage it
I want to understand what you meant when you said she was upset that you "used to look at a lot of other women." Are we talking about checking people out in public. following women on social media. porn. or messaging and flirting. The specifics matter, because there's a big difference between past scrolling habits and crossing a boundary in the relationship. Could you share a bit more about what "looking" was in your case, and what changed since then.