Is this right?

what you wrote reminds me of how the breakup feels so uneven. one person bleeding, the other looking fine. it always looked lopsided like that.

i remember sitting alone while he was out living like nothing changed. it hurt seeing how different our worlds looked.

It can be really tough when it feels like the other person is moving on or seems unaffected, while you're still dealing with the emotional aftermath. Remember that people cope with emotions in different ways, and it's possible that they might be putting on a facade or haven't fully processed their feelings yet.

Try to focus on your own healing journey and prioritize self-care. It's okay to feel your emotions and take the time you need to work through them. You might find it helpful to talk to a trusted friend, family member, or mental health professional about how you're feeling.

Some things that might help you cope with these feelings include:

- *Journaling*: Writing down your thoughts and emotions can help you process and release them.
- *Self-care*: Make time for activities that bring you comfort and relaxation, like exercise, meditation, or spending time in nature.
- *Support system*: Reach out to friends, family, or a support group for connection and understanding.
- *Patience*: Be gentle with yourself and allow yourself the time and space to heal.

You got this, and you're strong enough to navigate these feelings.

i hated watching him laugh like nothing happened. felt like he destroyed me then just walked off whistling.

I don’t know them, but if I believe what I believe, they are pretending they are fine. Just to let you know they “are ok without you”. And if it’s not, you know they lost an incredible person.